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slave location: California Age group: 30 - 39 Seeking: Many diverse personas! Intensity of play: i enjoy the occaisonal beating Relationship desired: Long term relationship with some play Fetish Clothing: Adores, Casual, 'straight' wear, Leather, Lingerie and stockings Punishments deserved: i can suffer, Psycho-drama, Humiliation, Bondage, Corporal Punishment, Crossdressing, CBT, Strap-on training, Nipple torture |
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SF Bay Area.......Ultimately I am seeking a long term monogamous relationship with someone (a woman!) around my own age. Someone who remembers and appreciates things like School House Rock. I am okay with taking things slow and being friends first, but can equally let things progress fast if that's how the chemistry works out. I'm usually not in control anyways, so I guess that's good lol. My political and social views are very liberal. If you are a right wing conservative, don't contact me....you might be a great person, but I cannot be with anyone who thinks rich people should get the tax breaks and that pot is evil and funds terrorism. I am agnostic, I lean more towards there is no God, but who can know? I am pretty sure that if there is one, he/she/it is nothing like anyone has ever imagined or written about. I don't get why most people seem 100% sure that there is a God. I can understand people thinking and believing there is a God, but 100% faith? C'mon. I am a deep thinker (or maybe just a pothead), and appreciate the same in others. Do you wonder why we are here, how did it start, will it end, if so, how? I do, and really get into Discovery Channel shows about the universe, ancient history, exploring the human brain, consciousness, etc. It would be nice to talk about things like this with someone. I have a regular 9-5 job that I like, but will never get rich from it. It makes me feel good about myself though, and that is priceless. My outward demeanor is just an easy going, happy go lucky guy. I get along well with almost everyone. I excercise regularly, good for mental health. You know how people get depressed, fall into a rut, every once in a while? To remedy this, for me, I just have to: excercise even when I don't feel like it, and listen to good music. I am amazed at what an emotional response music can have on a person, change their mood. I love classic rock type music, Led Zepplin, Pink Floyd, Soundgarden, you get the idea. But I also love Tori Amos, she can make a grown man cry. For the BDSM part, I have enough experience to realize that it must be a part of my life, somehow. If I meet a person that feels as I do about the things above, than it can take almost any role or dimension, but she must at least enjoy being in control some of the time, or have had fantasies of being in control. Of course, an experienced lifestyle Domme would be most welcome. I have never been in a serious relationship with a Domme, but I have had several play partners over the years. I can distinguish between fantasy and reality, something a lot of people apparently cannot do. Example, I enjoy a woman with a strap on, making me suck it and calling me slut, she can tell me what a good cocksucker I am...but I will never agree to be with another man. Nothing wrong with it...everyone draws the line somewhere. Besides, the real passion for me is dominance and submission, the electricity in the exchange of power, the mental aspect. The thought of completely giving myself to someone just does it for me. A simple pulling of my head back by my hair and whispering "you're mine" will do it. Just the mutual "knowing", you know? Of course, I am quite a freak, too. I love anal worship, I could bury my tongue there forever lol. Facesitting, cbt, spanking, strap-ons, verbal roleplay, bondage, caning, punishment, disciplining and reinforcement, wrestling....I would really do almost anything that she enjoys, but absolutely no kids, animals, shit, or anything that is seriously unsafe. Just a little common sense. It is extremely important for me to feel that we are doing something that turns her on, that she enjoys, that makes her happy. I have a strong desire to please, which was present in every relationship I have had. |
