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slave location: Virginia Age group: 30 - 39 Seeking: Many diverse personas! Intensity of play: i relish receiving regular discipline Relationship desired: Total 24/7 control Fetish Clothing: Adores, Corsets, Rubber, Casual, 'straight' wear, Leather, Lingerie and stockings, High heels and a business suit Punishments deserved: i can suffer, Everything! |
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There are very few people in this world that are capable of, let alone have the desire to give me what I need and take pleasure from it. I have many fantasies, but seek only reality – a long term M/s lifestyle relationship which can operate in the real world and go well beyond simplistic “playtime.” It works because it enriches the lives of both involved and satiates genuine internal needs for power exchange; it is never burdensome. I enjoy the concepts of strict protocol, rules and rituals, but my experience in real lifestyle training is limited. I may possess certain qualities that a dominant woman would find desirable in a man – I am very calm, confident, patient, attentive, honest, quiet, unassuming, reliable, not prone to jealousy, considerate of others, hardly needy or whiny, and trustworthy. I am submissive, not stupid. You may have never met a man like me if you’ve been meeting most men. I view submission and slave training as the only path to self discovery not yet taken and cannot be taken without an exceptional, experienced and knowledgeable guide to lead me. I like steel cages. I don’t want to be locked in one 24/7. Her mind and physical presence is really the only cage needed to keep me locked up, but she still likes to wear black leather corsets and stiletto heel boots from time-to-time. I am open to exploring almost anything within safety and health constraints. It will only work if our interests are compatible, she can actually dominate and I can really submit. I have my own long list of interests, which are meaningless unless she truly derives pleasure using them to her advantage. After a life-time of experience “playing,” I am seeking something real. Outside interests include modern design and architecture; art, dining out; scuba diving; travel, museums; jazz, lounge, and house music; writing; web-design, photography, fashion and style; shopping; cooking. I am very open to poly situations, M/F couples, groups, private or public parties, and enforced sexuality. She is first and foremost someone I can respect and admire as a person well before the leather boots go on. I'd much rather she be naturally able to dominate with a soft whispered word or a simple glance than having to yell or act the persona. She mixes cruel, strict, demanding, caring and understanding like a fine martini. Honesty, integrity, creativity, intelligence, as well as physical appearance are very important to me. If I do not feel a physical and emotional attraction to someone it’s not likely I would desire to submit. It is unlikely that anyone under 25 would possess the life experience let alone the BDSM experience to match my needs. Discretion, trust and respect are guaranteed as is safe, sane, and consensual. |