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Every novice slaves quide to finding a Mistress to serve and love

 

Templehelper July 2004
   Finding a Mistress to serve and love can be very challenging for every male slave, the odds are firmly stacked against us. For every Strict Mistress, dozens of slaves are likely striving to gain Her kind attention. First impressions may be the difference between success and failure, so you should begin readying yourself as early as you can. Every Mistress is different, indeed, some will chastise you for calling Them Mistress. So take some time to understand the Lady who appeals most to you. Be sure you are capable, or at least willing, to meet Her varied needs.

Before you race towards slavery, consider the Ladies who might consider you very carefully. Do you really have what She is looking for? Be honest with yourself, and always with Her. Be careful because not every Lady is the loving sadist you dream of, some may be the evil succubus who will leave you emotionally distraught. It can be all too easy for a slave to fall in love with the first sadistic Lady with a whip; try and consider all the facets of Her personality. Does She have love in Her heart? i mean even the most wicked Sadist can be loving and nurturing, i would know ;)

Focus all your energy on pleasing the Lady you wish to serve. All of it, and nothing less. For me there was only ever one choice, let your feelings guide you and pour out your loving submission, if there is a chance She will notice you, this will help things develop. If your honesty and sincerity, matched with a serious willingness to submit, are not enough, then this Lady is likely not interested in aquiring you as a slave. Be polite and gather your tears, another dream will come along!

Give up everything and become Her slave. If you really seek the Domina of your dreams, then you have to become the slave of Hers, nothing less will do. No sooner than you read Her profile, consider the things important to Her, perhaps She seems like your ideal Mistress, you could update your profile as you come to understand Her needs and wants. Read carefully, many small details are very important to a Lady, and then read again. Gradually, you will learn which mannerisms and styles She would appreciate the most. Always remember to be yourself, playing the part of the slave is a beautiful and romantic journey, be sure you cater to Her needs but always remember who you are.

Ultimately, remember that a Mistress/slave relationship is much like any other, honesty and respect are the foundations you should build upon. In my experience, when you bring love, you will find it. Choose carefully and then give everything to your loving submission, with any luck, you can find a Mistress to serve and love.

 

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