PrincessWendy

Dominatrix location:  New York

Age group:  30 - 39

Personality:  Supreme Goddess

Intensity of play:  I give the occasional beating

Relationship desired:  Long term relationship with some play

Fetish clothing:  I enjoy wearing, Leather, Casual 'straight' wear

Domination play:  I adore inflicting, Corporal Punishment, Strap-on training, Crossdressing, Nipple torture, Golden Showers, Psycho-drama, CBT, Bondage

I am a Princess. I am cute, smart, creative, affectionate, demanding, friendly, nuturing, bossy, silly, funny, and fun. Sometimes I am cranky. My chronological age is 30, but I vary anywhere from age 5 on up. Being a Dominant female isn't a role for me, it's the spice which seasons all of my relationships with boys. I don't spend all day whipping people while I wear high heels, and unless I am doing a specific role-playing bit, it's just regular ME, and I will tell you what to do, you will do it, and after awhile, I won't have to tell you anymore because you'll be trained. I like to be treated nicely, I like a lot of attention, and I like to be taken care of. I am polyamorous, and polymorphously perverse. I am non-mainstream, I guess I could be described as punk rock/artsy/bohemian/unique. I never tried to fit in because I never saw the point in compromising my identity.

I am a member of a NYC bdsm organization, and I might join one or two others. Community is important to me.

I am looking for a LTR with a sweet, curious, intelligent, generous, confident, amusing, gentle, creative, NON-mainstream submissive boy who is serious about serving. he should be between the ages of 21-35, scrawny or fit, and being a bit femme-y is not a requirement but it doesn't hurt. I like boys who are sexually assertive, as long as they know who comes first! Tattoos and piercings are a plus. I don't require a boy to wear his bdsm on his sleeve, but I like those who are a little off-beat or punk rock or just different. Mainstream people freak me out for the most part.

To the vanilla world, it will look like just a regular girlfriend/boyfriend relationship, but we will know there is more to the story, like the part about the collar. Because life is not a Pro-Domme session, our time together will not only be about play, but will also involve all the nice things people can do together: going to the movies, walking around, taking little trips here and there, hanging out with friends, etc. However, those friends will notice you are quite attentive to my needs.

Behind closed doors, the boy will be subjected to different fun bdsm-related activites. I must be very clear that I am more into the M/s aspect of bdsm than I am the Sado-masochistic aspects. It's more about service and attention. Sure, there are few things I enjoy more than a cute boy in a collar, all tied up, with some red marks on his ass - but for me, the joy of inflicting pleasurable pain lies mostly in the fact that it is within my rights to do so!

I also seek a houseboy to come over a few times each week to make my life orderly, clean, and pretty, by cleaning, doing dishes, laundry, etc. Sexual servitude is expected with this position. You will be collared. I do not want my boyfriend to be my houseboy, but he will be expected to pitch in on days when he is at my house and the houseboy is not.

I also seek a boot-boy, and this position can be filled by either the boyfriend, the houseboy, or someone completely different. I wear Doc Martens and motorcycle boots and I rather enjoy having them polished and cared for. This, too, will involve sexual servitude, as well as a collar. I do not like having my feet worshipped, however, so do not even ask.

For me, being a Dominant is a spiritual endeavor - it is about recognizing and being THE REAL ME. I'm not perfect, and I am always learning, and that's so much fun!




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